"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lowering standards (slightly).

TheMonkeyKing

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Currently, I am in touch with a couple of 7's and I want to get with the to satiate the thirst that has come about from a 3 month dry spell.

Girl One has basically offered it to me on a plate, apparently no strings attached, telling me about her spanking fetish etc. She is of course already glossing over her own interest level, as she's texting me throughout the day etc.

Girl Two is actually a decent chick who is probably good to go after a date or two as well; but I'm not in the business of stringing decent folks along anymore.

Do you ever go with girls you're not necessarily attracted to and how do you avoid the inevitable attachment?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes but I dont lead them on at all. attachment isnt inevitable unless they're actually bringing something to the table.
I meant their attachment.
 

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I don't feel like it is stringing somebody along if you are just having fun and spinning other plates. The plates part is important because if you are constantly investing in them, showering them with attention I believe that's when you cross the line into .. leading somebody on. Women assume, let them. If you keep your investment level low it is hard to mistake it for a potential ltr

Just be prepared to have the talk, most women will usually avoid it until they notice your dj behaviour.
 
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