Lower standards?

[captain55]

i have quite a few hot women in my life at the moment but none I’m really interested in . One is a 9 but she’s a single mom and I don’t want to date a chick with a kid. One legit 8 but she doesn’t have the natural phat ass that I like. One is a 7 with an amazing ass but she’s just not hot enough facially for me to lock down. I require an 8/10 face minimum with a big natural ass....obviously this combination is hard to find. But I’ve pulled and dated this before so the way I look at it is if I did it once I can do it again.

For me sometimes I feel like I’m entitled to take a hot chick out just because I’m being greedy but now I’m seriously considering not even bothering unless I’m really interested. For you other guys with high standards I have a simple question for you.

If the girl is not a chick that you are proud to show off in public or genuinely interested in....do you still pursue?

 

[Spaz]

No.

Women does most of the pursuing, you just got to notice it and then decide which one interest you more.

 

[AbaGanov]

If the girl is not a chick that you are proud to show off in public or genuinely interested in....do you still pursue?

I don't get it honestly. if you are not interested in her why the f**k would you pursue her?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

If the girl is not a chick that you are proud to show off in public or genuinely interested in....do you still pursue?

Girls aren't just a trophy you show off in public dude. They might give you a social boost (it's fun going to a party with a girl you know is cute for example) but at the same time that shouldn't ever be the primary reason for dating someone.

Also as I say in almost all these threads, it depends what the purpose of the dating is.

If you want sex with someone and that's it, it doesn't matter if they have every perfect trait you'd want in an ideal partner. If you're looking for an LTR on the other hand, you need to be more picky about who you date.

 

[The Duke]

i have quite a few hot women in my life at the moment but none I’m really interested in . One is a 9 but she’s a single mom and I don’t want to date a chick with a kid. One legit 8 but she doesn’t have the natural phat ass that I like. One is a 7 with an amazing ass but she’s just not hot enough facially for me to lock down. I require an 8/10 face minimum with a big natural ass....obviously this combination is hard to find. But I’ve pulled and dated this before so the way I look at it is if I did it once I can do it again.

For me sometimes I feel like I’m entitled to take a hot chick out just because I’m being greedy but now I’m seriously considering not even bothering unless I’m really interested. For you other guys with high standards I have a simple question for you.

If the girl is not a chick that you are proud to show off in public or genuinely interested in....do you still pursue?

There was a time when I was less experienced that I did. I used those girls to gain knowledge,better my skills, and have sex with. These days I have better things to do with my time.

Certainly you should never date solely for looks, but that girl is a reflection of you. Whenever I see an attractive guy with a girl less than him I question his manhood. Its like the girl gets a relationship plus a hot guy. This makes the score 2 to 0 in my eyes.