"I just moved here from Florida."

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She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lower chest workout

Jariel

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My chest workout consists of flat and incline bench presses and db flyes, which has given me great results except that I've started to notice that the lower part of my chest appears to be looking underdeveloped compared to the rest.

Can anyone suggest some exercises that specifically target the lower part of the chest?

Unfortunately, I only have access to basic equipment and no machines or cables, but I've started adding pushups and dips to my routine - are these effective?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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decline bench press

you could also try, during normal bench presses, to position the bar over your lower chest and then push up from there
 

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What he said. Forget push ups - they are a strength exercise. And to the best of my knowledge (from a practical standpoint) I believe bar dips target the upper chest. So go the decline!
 

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In some ways you are lucky, most people have trouble with their upper chest.

I'd stick with flat benches, just go for 6-8reps.

I also think weighted dips work the lower pec well, but that's just me.
 

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Agreed with above..... weighted dips.. but lean your body forward.. approx 30degreess.... this will help eliminate using your triceps.

Good luck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When you get older, the lower chest sorta just dies and gives you ***** tits :)

30 degree dips are excellent.
 

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I know, I'm just warning you of the possibilities.. nothing wrong with tits, it's something to play with when the days are long :p
 
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