"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lower chest workout

Jariel

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My chest workout consists of flat and incline bench presses and db flyes, which has given me great results except that I've started to notice that the lower part of my chest appears to be looking underdeveloped compared to the rest.

Can anyone suggest some exercises that specifically target the lower part of the chest?

Unfortunately, I only have access to basic equipment and no machines or cables, but I've started adding pushups and dips to my routine - are these effective?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gav

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decline bench press

you could also try, during normal bench presses, to position the bar over your lower chest and then push up from there
 

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What he said. Forget push ups - they are a strength exercise. And to the best of my knowledge (from a practical standpoint) I believe bar dips target the upper chest. So go the decline!
 

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In some ways you are lucky, most people have trouble with their upper chest.

I'd stick with flat benches, just go for 6-8reps.

I also think weighted dips work the lower pec well, but that's just me.
 

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Agreed with above..... weighted dips.. but lean your body forward.. approx 30degreess.... this will help eliminate using your triceps.

Good luck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When you get older, the lower chest sorta just dies and gives you ***** tits :)

30 degree dips are excellent.
 

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I know, I'm just warning you of the possibilities.. nothing wrong with tits, it's something to play with when the days are long :p
 
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