"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lower Abs?

Anomalous

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I got two questions. Whenever i work out by abs, they seems smaller. Is this due to just being worked out a day earlier?

And when ever i work out, for a few days, my lower abs don't show at all. So whats a great ab workout that targest the lower abs.

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Whats a good oblic (however you spell it) excersize?


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DaKidS3

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You work out your abs everday?

Don't. Give your abs a rest, they are a muslce just like your biceps, triceps, quads etc...

You wouldn't bench press everyday, would you?
 

Not Quite There

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Incase your not aware, you need low bodyfat for them to show.

Besides this, theyre like any other muscle, they need to rest between workouts for them to recover.

Personally I have found the best results from pulsing crunches, weighted crunches and leg raises/kick outs if thats what you call them.
 

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Thanks guys.

And no i rarely workout my abs, but i have been complimented on them (best abs they ever seen).

And i do have/and i'm aware that you have to have a low percent body fat.

But the question here is i rarely find an excrised works mainly on the lower abs, any suggestions?
 

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Bene lo zacomo (lei ha realmente bisogno di dirme come sillabarlo) vado iniziare anche il mio esercizio fisico presto 14 giorni a essere esatti cosí lo sguardo fuori dal mio amico buono, ha indossato prende a grande!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol i cant speak it that well, but hope you understand it!
 

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Nope, doesn't make sense. Next time try actually learning a language before using freetranslation.com to write your posts for you.
 

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Yea i know what your talking about. But doesn't that target your upper 4 abs?
 
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