"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sorry im going to brief since im writing from my phone . I was gaming a femail bartender and she said I speak too low there was music playing but I do think I speak low. My voice is deep this doesnt help either so how do I speak louder without coming across like im yelling. Once again written from my phone and advice would be helpful thnx
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Surely this is a perfect excuse to suggest to her that you go somewhere more quiet and private? You could have used it to your advantage.
 

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Secret_To_Success said:
Sorry im going to brief since im writing from my phone . I was gaming a femail bartender and she said I speak too low there was music playing but I do think I speak low. My voice is deep this doesnt help either so how do I speak louder without coming across like im yelling. Once again written from my phone and advice would be helpful thnx
have fun and dont try not to yell or not to speak low just be in your body
if you like some material from a "guru" [lol] in rsd's "natural tim" he says that we all have imagined volume knob in our head, so imagine that someone is 3 steps back away from you when you talk to him/her and you will have louder voice
dont try to talk to the person make your voice go behind the person

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dude, I have a low voice and women LOVE it. If it's loud, I just physically move them to a quieter area.

I have this joke I make about my low voice, I tell women I'm thinking of becoming a country singer with my hit song being called "You've Got A Pretty Mouth, Boy" (I can't stand country music).

Trust me, you should be feeling sorry for the guys who have higher pitched voices.
 
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