"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I could use some advice on how I could the old give the old libido a boost. Viagra is not an option and I would prefer to not have to get anything that would need to be prescribed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What I've read and it's worked for me is:

Less caffine and alcohol (darn it!)

More sleep

More exercise

Also, buy some zinc tablets at the store, this cranks up the sperm count from what I've heard. All I know is when I take them it does seem like the libido increases and practically any woman with a pulse starts looking attractive, LOL!

Lack of sleep (where I'm at right now) makes me feel like I'm dead and practically aesexual.

I'd also highly recommend doing the natural health way as opposed to pharmaceuticals. Go to your health food store and get some advice, they usually have good people working who wouldn't laugh at such a question. I'm big into vitamins and supplements and find that most of them make me feel good in all areas of my life.
 

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What everyone else says plus..

Take a good multi vitamin

A healthy dose of blueberries every day

A driknk of Gnat ****; Goose grease; carrot juice and fern grass should do the trick....
 

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You need to relax.

Stress is an enemy of a good sex life.

Also don't masterbate....

But you really should speak to a doctor about this. People who are too shy to get help will suffer... why sufffer when there is help out there?

Dietzcoi
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've found that vitamin and herbal supplements from health food shops work quite well. They usually do a package labelled for 'men's health' or some such euphemism. The tablets I take have multivitamins, zinc, etc, I also take ginseng. Seems to work, I have more energy than before.

I'm also finding that as I get older, alcohol is having a worse and worse effect on me - testosterone plummets, I get emotional, can't sleep and feel dizzy even after 3 or 4 drinks, whereas in my teens/twenties I used to drink about 7-8 pints of beer and feel fine the next day.
 

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Originally posted by entropy
Raise your testosterone levels (lift weights).
I agree with entropy. Also take some prohormones, they raise your test levels.
 

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LOW SEX DRIVE IS ALL MENTAL


Sometimes it can be.

It's regulated by chemicals, same as your mood.

As we age we produce less and less testosterone.

You can raise your test levels by following everyones advice on here. I recomend exercise AND eating healthy. You will raise your IQ, and have firmer errections (if nothings wrong) due to better blood circulation. You'll also look better.
 

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All of the above -- except for the all mental part, that's bunk, and seeing the idiot doctors -- plus kelp tabs. It's the iodine. Boosts thyroid hormone. Thyroid produces all hormones including sex hormones. Been where you are at and the exercise, supplements, and some detox did the trick.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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true|hockey

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Originally posted by entropy
LOW SEX DRIVE IS ALL MENTAL


Sometimes it can be.

It's regulated by chemicals, same as your mood.

As we age we produce less and less testosterone.

You can raise your test levels by following everyones advice on here. I recomend exercise AND eating healthy. You will raise your IQ, and have firmer errections (if nothings wrong) due to better blood circulation. You'll also look better.
might I also suggest Vitamins B6/ B12 which will aid in better circulation, and even clearer thinking. Chemicals in your brain which facilitate good moods/ high sex drive like dopamine are found to be aided by taking these vitamens.
 

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Stop w a n k i n g.
 

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In Summary, to raise sex drive:

1. Stop Wanking (thanks Walden)

2. Take Vitamins B12/B6

3. yohimbine hcl

4. Take kelp tabs

5. Raise Testorone level (lift weights, get plenty of sleep, eat red meat, do competitive activities)

6. Avoid stress

7. Take a good multi-vitamin.

8. healthy dose of blueberries every day

9. driknk of Gnat****, Goose grease, carrot juice and fern grass

10. various mens specific multi-vitamins

11. take zinc tablets

12. limit alcohol and caffiene consumption
 
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Yeah, good summary, Everclear, except the "wtf???" comments.

It's alright if you can't read or understand a simple explanation, as I've posted. But most folks who lack the mental prowess try to it to themselves. Might even help with the women . . . but who knows, if you lay off the wanking, the brain function is sure to improve . . .
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just because I haven't heard of something doesn't mean my "mental prowess" is lacking.

But you are correct, the "wtf" comments were somewhat judgemental and I will remove them.
 

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Ginsana is natural viagra!! I took them for energy adn all I can say is OH SH!t does it work! Take 1 or 2 ginsana per day and I promise you will stay hard all day. I had to cut back because my stuff was always hard.
 
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