"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Low self esteem=gf sabotaging relationship?

jigga23

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Ive been with my gf for over a year now just about. Sometimes she seems like she has high self esteem and at other times and has low self esteem. It is true she tries to sabotage the relationship sometimes by doing and saying stupid sh*t. Its like she is so scared sometimes like when it comes to her friends and me she will always take her friends side because obvisiouly she is worried that something will happen and she needs to keep her friends tight with her. No problem with her being with her friends but its obvious she does that cause shes scared of the relationship sometimes. It is hell living with a girl like that up and down like a freakin merry go round. I honestly want to pick up and leave sometimes (I live with her) but I dont know how i guess cause of her my emotions go up and down for her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Originally posted by jigga23
she will always take her friends side because obvisiouly she is worried that something will happen and she needs to keep her friends tight with her.
Relationships come and go but friendship last forever.

You don’t burn bridges that you want to cross back.

Originally posted by jigga23
shes scared of the relationship sometimes.
Scared of what?

Scared of you?

I think there is something more to it and your missing it or she’s a crazy b1tch.

It is hell living with a girl

Yes it is that’s why we tell you not to live with your GF.

She should live with you when your married that’s it.

Kick the b1tch out and save yourself some headache.

If you can’t figure out what’s wrong and you can’t have decent communication with you GF then it’s time to revaluate your situation and get rid of her. It’s obvious your not ready for one so move on.
 

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She is testing whether or not you are a real man and it sounds like you are failing.

Read 'The Way of the Superior Man' and you will find the answer to your question.
 
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