@Hank Moody Well my implication there was of course I don't want to waste my time in the event that she really isn't looking for anything long term or plans to just have a summer fling with me. Ultimately I would like to progress. But of course, as you read in my post I'm sure, she has basically given me mixed signals galore from the start and I'm just not interested in shelling out anymore cash or anymore of my time without having some sort of clarity even if that comes in the form of interest from her. I've spoken to two close friends of mine about the situation and they both said any woman who likes you after dating for a month would have wanted to see you for their birthday weekend, even if that meant you going out with her friends. I really have to agree. Hell, if I liked a chick I was dating for a month it wouldn't even be a second thought. Come on out.