Got a 23 year old cutie plate I was spinning a few months ago, one night I was at her place and she drops the "I want to be exclusive" line, now this is just as I'm wrapping up to leave and caught me off guard (rookie mistake, I know) I stammer something kinda lame, say we'll talk about it and leave. I was out of town on business for a few weeks, busy after that, long story short kinda cut off contact with her for a few weeks. Last week she hits me up with "so are we just not going to talk anymore?", I tell her I've been busy, we go to lunch Saturday, she looks cute but doesn't seem too engaged or talkative, at the end I move to kiss her, not much spark there from her either, I tell her maybe we'll hang out this week. We text a bit Sunday I ask to come over she doesn't respond till Monday with "I didn't see your message" and doesn't really play along. At this stage I'm not too committed, I can walk away if need be but if it's sh!t test I'd rather blast through it and get back to the fvcking. Thoughts and suggestions?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Low interest or mind games
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Its pretty simple man....she wants you all to herself. You stalled and now she's pulling back to avoid getting hurt.
Contrary to sosuave bro-logic, the majority of women will eventually demand a "commitment" even if you're only seeing each other casually. If you can't give that to her, its no more free samples for you. Time to let her go.
Contrary to sosuave bro-logic, the majority of women will eventually demand a "commitment" even if you're only seeing each other casually. If you can't give that to her, its no more free samples for you. Time to let her go.
Sent her a text: "You seem different, do you want to keep seeing each other?"
The tactic is to just cut the bullsh!t, any reply from her other than "No" is a "Yes" and no matter how coy she tries to be, she's no match for me and my skillset, plus she loves when I lay the pipe on her :rockon:
If she does say no, fine, number deleted, out of my life. I already got a lunch date with a SMILF for Thursday (Hell yeah we're splitting the check)
Her reply 2 hours later: "I was distant, I thought we were moving on, I still want to see you"
How about them apples?
I believe the moral of the story here is if you're going to go NC on a woman, make it a clean break, one that SHE KNOWS she'll have to cross.
The next date is going to be a pump and dump just to prove a point.
The tactic is to just cut the bullsh!t, any reply from her other than "No" is a "Yes" and no matter how coy she tries to be, she's no match for me and my skillset, plus she loves when I lay the pipe on her :rockon:
If she does say no, fine, number deleted, out of my life. I already got a lunch date with a SMILF for Thursday (Hell yeah we're splitting the check)
Her reply 2 hours later: "I was distant, I thought we were moving on, I still want to see you"
How about them apples?
I believe the moral of the story here is if you're going to go NC on a woman, make it a clean break, one that SHE KNOWS she'll have to cross.
The next date is going to be a pump and dump just to prove a point.
"The next date is going to be a pump and dump just to prove a point." - what point are you proving (to yourself)? She likes you and wanted to have a relationship with you, you obviously don't so why not man up and tell her what you think / want instead of showing her that you may still want to move things forward and then pull the rug out from under her after you get some ass....??? Just a **** move on your part. Her behavior was pretty normal and not an insult / game playing. She thought you weren't interested and didn't want to get hurt so she backed off.
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I am with yuppaz here, if you do not want to be with her then cut it off and get on that soccer mom lol. She is clearly way more into you then you are her.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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This guy nailed it right here. Show some class & respect for others dude. You mention how "she's no match for your skillset".....hmmm really? Talking about "cut the bullsh!t"....man up and let her know what you are really after.yuppaz said:
Sounds like she wants a relationship and there is nothing wrong with that. Don't mind fuk a decent girl just so your needs get met. If you got so much skill as you say, you should have many other plates going to meet those needs.