Low Interest Girl came back what do I do? Am I being used?

[GrowingPains]

I feel like I was in the dark and someone turned on a light switch with this most recent failure. Gonna buy AMS' audiobook and listen to it a million times.

The reality of it is, you'll probably feel this way again. You'll probably have some more falls. But the difference is you'll know that they're not devastating and you will be able to get up quicker. It's just part of the process.

AMS is great because he doesn't bullsh!t. It's hard to always take what he says as 100% truth because we haven't experienced what he has and he's seeing things through his lense. We are seeing things through our own. He said something in a recent video that is pretty relevant here. He was talking about how people always say 'AMS what book did you read to become an alpha'. And he goes on to say that there ain't no book. Experience is the best teacher. He failed A LOT and that's why he is what he is today.

 

[sazc]

I don’t see why women always have to try to use me... just ignore me if you don’t like me lol. Don’t try to use me. If girls didn’t do this shyt we wouldn’t even need Game or Outcome Independence

Women believe in male female friendships.

Most of them don't understand, are even insulted by, this idea that a man can't value her for anything else other than a sexual being.

That is why she's reaching out to you, hoping you'll have enough interest to say "sure" and, if you try to escalate, shell throw the LJBF line at you and won't understand why you aren't happy with that.

 

[lamath]

Women believe in male female friendships.

Most of them don't understand, are even insulted by, this idea that a man can't value her for anything else other than a sexual being.

That is why she's reaching out to you, hoping you'll have enough interest to say "sure" and, if you try to escalate, shell throw the LJBF line at you and won't understand why you aren't happy with that.

Only way to counter this is to make your intention clear. Tell her you dont want her as your friend.


Only reason to accept to go to the club with her is for social proof she might be able to help you game some other chick.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Women believe in male female friendships.

Most of them don't understand, are even insulted by, this idea that a man can't value her for anything else other than a sexual being.

That is why she's reaching out to you, hoping you'll have enough interest to say "sure" and, if you try to escalate, shell throw the LJBF line at you and won't understand why you aren't happy with that.

I forgot to mention that I’m pretty sure she went home with SOME OTHER DUDE... that is so unacceptable lol. He’s banging her and I just get used for my non sexual attention? Nah, G. It’s just like AMS said so I’m gonna base my Game Model more around his now

 

[nicksaiz65]

The reality of it is, you'll probably feel this way again. You'll probably have some more falls. But the difference is you'll know that they're not devastating and you will be able to get up quicker. It's just part of the process.

AMS is great because he doesn't bullsh!t. It's hard to always take what he says as 100% truth because we haven't experienced what he has and he's seeing things through his lense. We are seeing things through our own. He said something in a recent video that is pretty relevant here. He was talking about how people always say 'AMS what book did you read to become an alpha'. And he goes on to say that there ain't no book. Experience is the best teacher. He failed A LOT and that's why he is what he is today.

I did see that video! The great thing is even if I fail, I will never ever give up. Not in a million years.

 

[Ranger]

If her lips are moving, it’s about her or what’s good for her.
I would have told her I’m for sex only. I’ve done it twice and it worked once.
When she has a fight with her BF again, she can get even with him by coming over and sukking you. Too simple.

 

[backseatjuan]

I forgot to mention that I’m pretty sure she went home with SOME OTHER DUDE.

Excellent, you left out the important part, because that is like 20 times worst than her flaking on a date. It's beyond disrespect. You don't even message her, you delete her number, period. If she does contact you again, you just tell her meet me here at this time, and you flake on her, if asked wtf, just tell her some other plans popped up, sorry I'm booked smiles.

Also check out Todd V Dating and Charisma on Command and Entrepreneurs in Cars and Andrew Ryan there are a whole bunch of hot channels out there, I just haven't found them yet, if you do share.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Excellent, you left out the important part, because that is like 20 times worst than her flaking on a date. It's beyond disrespect. You don't even message her, you delete her number, period. If she does contact you again, you just tell her meet me here at this time, and you flake on her, if asked wtf, just tell her some other plans popped up, sorry I'm booked smiles.

Also check out Todd V Dating and Charisma on Command and Entrepreneurs in Cars and Andrew Ryan there are a whole bunch of hot channels out there, I just haven't found them yet, if you do share.

I was drunk and thought I put it in here. But I woke up and realized I didn't.

Yeah that's fvcking ridiculous that people think they can treat me like this. And picking some pasty white frat boy over me too? Nah G. The levels of disrespect are insane.

That's why I think full on Alpha Game is the best thing to do. I purely got used for my non-sexual attention. Fvcking ridiculous and extremely disrespectful.

Deleted her number, not answering her Snapchats. Oh and here's the kicker: she doesn't even have my damn number saved. Women and their fvcking games. You can invite me out but you can't even save my number? Fvck that. At some point I have to stand up for myself.

I used to think that you would need to text girls to build up a bond, but it's just a way for them to use you for your non-sexual attention. What do you think though?

Fvck this. Alpha Male Game all 2019. We are going to fvck these hoes to sleep around here. Fvck the slutty disrespectful women. Honestly, I'm glad her boyfriend cheated on her. Hell I would too. I'll have to buy the dude a drink if I ever run into him. That's what she gets for drooling over alcoholic frat boys like a typical used up college wh0re.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Excellent, you left out the important part, because that is like 20 times worst than her flaking on a date. It's beyond disrespect. You don't even message her, you delete her number, period. If she does contact you again, you just tell her meet me here at this time, and you flake on her, if asked wtf, just tell her some other plans popped up, sorry I'm booked smiles.

Also check out Todd V Dating and Charisma on Command and Entrepreneurs in Cars and Andrew Ryan there are a whole bunch of hot channels out there, I just haven't found them yet, if you do share.

I actually do watch Todd V Dating and Charisma on Command. I need to check out more of their videos. I'd say AMS is the best resource for dealing with these typical shallow ass wh0re-slvts at the moment though. But I really do like Todd's Channel as well. Roosh V is a good Red Pilled resource as well, his book "Game" is very comprehensive

 

[lamath]

Excellent, you left out the important part, because that is like 20 times worst than her flaking on a date. It's beyond disrespect. You don't even message her, you delete her number, period. If she does contact you again, you just tell her meet me here at this time, and you flake on her, if asked wtf, just tell her some other plans popped up, sorry I'm booked smiles.

Also check out Todd V Dating and Charisma on Command and Entrepreneurs in Cars and Andrew Ryan there are a whole bunch of hot channels out there, I just haven't found them yet, if you do share.

I never watch Andrew Ryan seems good specially his txt video.

On of my Fav is RSDMAX

 

[nicksaiz65]

I never watch Andrew Ryan seems good specially his txt video.

On of my Fav is RSDMAX

RSDMax is pretty cool! I like Jeffy and Julien as well.

One of the most confusing parts of Game is that AMS says not to text women much because you're giving away your non-sexual attention. Yet RSDMax and Jeffy say to text them to keep the emotional momentum going.

Based on my most recent experience, I'm gonna agree more with AMS but what do you think about that

 

[backseatjuan]

I was drunk and thought I put it in here. But I woke up and realized I didn't.

Were you drunk on your date with her?

 

[nicksaiz65]

Were you drunk on your date with her?

Decently drunk yeah. We went to a bar. As soon as I realized I was being used I dipped without saying a word. If she wants to fvck that other dude so bad she can find a way home herself lol

 

[backseatjuan]

You gotta give her a break, why would she want to fck a drunk. I bet you were fun for her while you were sober, then you got drunk and become goofy and beta. Bar has its specific purpose man, get her drunk, she's a woman, she's small, it don't take much. Your limit is two, hers is two or three, and then you two are out, perhaps more drinks at your place, or a walk, change of surroundings so you can escalate and get into her panties.

 

[nicksaiz65]

You gotta give her a break, why would she want to fck a drunk. I bet you were fun for her while you were sober, then you got drunk and become goofy and beta. Bar has its specific purpose man, get her drunk, she's a woman, she's small, it don't take much. Your limit is two, hers is two or three, and then you two are out, perhaps more drinks at your place, or a walk, change of surroundings so you can escalate and get into her panties.

Sounds like a good plan. I think she had like two beers or so? She had her eye on some fat pasty white frat boy anyways so it's no good, she wouldn't have given me the chance to escalate.

I still feel disrespected. I'm not opening her Snaps. She can not open my shyt for a week... so two can play that ignoring game lol. I don't even care about this specific hoe anymore, I'm just mad that I let myself get played like this tbh. I fell right into her trap

 

[lamath]

You gotta give her a break, why would she want to fck a drunk. I bet you were fun for her while you were sober, then you got drunk and become goofy and beta. Bar has its specific purpose man, get her drunk, she's a woman, she's small, it don't take much. Your limit is two, hers is two or three, and then you two are out, perhaps more drinks at your place, or a walk, change of surroundings so you can escalate and get into her panties.

I think her wanting to go out to a club with him say it all on her intentions. A club is not the same thing as a bar, you can have a decent conversation in a more intimate setting in a bar.

Him being drunk did not change anything in this situation imo

But i agree better not get too dunk on a date its just common sense.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I think her wanting to go out to a club with him say it all on her intentions. A club is not the same thing as a bar, you can have a decent conversation in a more intimate setting in a bar.

Him being drunk did not change anything in this situation imo

But i agree better not get too dunk on a date its just common sense.

If you get them too drunk you can't fvck them

 

[Robert28]

You’d be surprised how many women are baffled that I don’t have Snapchat, don’t have Instagram, don’t have twitter, etc. They try to talk me into getting them but I’m like nope, too busy for stuff like that.