Low Interest Girl came back what do I do? Am I being used?

[nicksaiz65]

So I was talking to this girl a while back and I was considering her low interest. She runs through boyfriends like nothing else. At first she and I were talking about hanging out and having a little date. But we fell off and then she dated some other dude, only to instantly break up with him.

Then she wouldn’t respond to my texts for like a week so I wrote her off as low interest.

She randomly hit me up today asking if I’m going to the college bar. She said she wanted someone to go with. I live right down the street from this bar. Should I go with her and try to escalate this to a lay(or at least a kiss?) I’m wondering if I should go for that or am I just being used for my non sexual attention and transportation?

You guys would know better than me; so you tell me. I already know not to fvck drunk girls. I’ll make sure she doesn’t get too drunk.

 

[Mazer]

“She randomly hit me up today asking if I’m going to the college bar. She said she wanted someone to go with. “
Still has Low interest and is disrespectful.
Wouldn’t surprise me if one of her ex bf is also there, could be using you to make him jealous.
I would tell her that you are busy that night and then invite her out another night and you pick the place. Anything but a yes, is a no.

 

[Robert28]

I’d go just to see what happens, you never know. There will be other girls there so maybe use her as a wingman, without getting her to help you of course because she won’t. Just be seen with her, other girls will notice, then when you talk to them just explain she’s a friend. Or if she acts into you all night, go for the kiss. It’s just one “date”, don’t buy her anything though and don’t go into it with any expectations at all.

 

[backseatjuan]

Availability trap man. You tell her you are busy, some other time.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

“She randomly hit me up today asking if I’m going to the college bar. She said she wanted someone to go with. “
Still has Low interest and is disrespectful.
Wouldn’t surprise me if one of her ex bf is also there, could be using you to make him jealous.
I would tell her that you are busy that night and then invite her out another night and you pick the place. Anything but a yes, is a no.

+1

Women ghost when ex is back or new guy chucked her.

 

[Bullbearpig]

I would turn her down. Or possibly go but upon arriving immediately start socializing with other people rather than her, especially other girls. But it sounds like she's not worth a lot of effort so I'd most likely just politely turn her down. It's a way to DHV.

 

[Tilex]

I get the impression she's not fun to be around, and that's why she can't find anyone to go with.
I bet she has a poor reputation of dropping people on the dime and completely discarding them. She's definitely using you.
I wouldn't be surprised if she bailed on you within 15 minutes of arriving at that bar.

 

[nicksaiz65]

In my view, she is wanting "someone" to go there with. She is not wanting "you" to go with. She simply doesn't want to show up there alone. She deems you "someone" who might be willing to fulfill the role, of being another person she could walk in with. That is all. She is not flattering you! She is using you! Engage or not, with that in mind!

I don’t see why women always have to try to use me... just ignore me if you don’t like me lol. Don’t try to use me. If girls didn’t do this shyt we wouldn’t even need Game or Outcome Independence

 

[GrowingPains]

I don’t see why women always have to try to use me... just ignore me if you don’t like me lol. Don’t try to use me. If girls didn’t do this shyt we wouldn’t even need Game or Outcome Independence

Because red pill.

Word from the wise (AMS): If a girl flaked on you or ignored you... She's gotta make that up to you. And she's gonna have to suck a whoooooollleeee lotta d!ck.

Just tell her if she wants to come over on X night for whatever then she can. Otherwise, she lost her opportunity for your attention. If she actually wants to meet up with you, she'll enter your frame. If she doesn't, low interest. Next.

Like who tf does she think she is coming back light-years later to try to conversation you to a beta orbiter? Does she know who she's talking to? Lmao. She must not've known the whole SoSuave forum would be on the case. Silly little girl.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I swear I'm too nice with women. I have to be more Red Pilled and hardened. I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and go out with her. I got used and abused to no end. I realized that and I dipped without even telling her goodnight. I'll type up the whole story here and in my journal. But I'm basically about to type up a whole rant against women.

I don't even know anymore. I thought this hybrid Game would work. But all women seem to want to do is use, confuse, neglect, and abuse me. I swear I'm about to strictly abide by what AMS says and that's it. Fvck these stupid hoes. I tried to be nice. But I'm lowkey done, I'm about to just turn myself into an extreme Alpha Male and only do what AMS says.

I'll put my angry rant both in here and in my journal.

I really think that pure Alpha Male(AMS) is the way to go. These hoes are fvcking cold blooded manipulators. No more being nice. Alpha Male Game is the only way to get them. I'm gonna go pure AMS and see where that gets me. I must be an Alpha Male, I come off as a too nice Beta Male.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Because red pill.

Word from the wise (AMS): If a girl flaked on you or ignored you... She's gotta make that up to you. And she's gonna have to suck a whoooooollleeee lotta d!ck.

Just tell her if she wants to come over on X night for whatever then she can. Otherwise, she lost her opportunity for your attention. If she actually wants to meet up with you, she'll enter your frame. If she doesn't, low interest. Next.

Like who tf does she think she is coming back light-years later to try to conversation you to a beta orbiter? Does she know who she's talking to? Lmao. She must not've known the whole SoSuave forum would be on the case. Silly little girl.

The SoSuave forum always has my back!

 

[nicksaiz65]

In my view, she is wanting "someone" to go there with. She is not wanting "you" to go with. She simply doesn't want to show up there alone. She deems you "someone" who might be willing to fulfill the role, of being another person she could walk in with. That is all. She is not flattering you! She is using you! Engage or not, with that in mind!

You were right. As always. I have got to stop giving these women the benefit of the doubt. I used to think that AMS was blowing this "getting used for your non-sexual attention" stuff out of proportion. I now see that he's not. I'm gonna work for 2 more years until I become an excellent Alpha Male that gets the women wet with just a look

 

[nicksaiz65]

Availability trap man. You tell her you are busy, some other time.

I'm going to structure my Game entirely around this dude's videos from now on. I was stupid to think that he was blowing things out of proportion.
ONE Game resource so I don't get confused. No more being a Nice Guy. And I think the best Game for me is AMS.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Because red pill.

Word from the wise (AMS): If a girl flaked on you or ignored you... She's gotta make that up to you. And she's gonna have to suck a whoooooollleeee lotta d!ck.

Just tell her if she wants to come over on X night for whatever then she can. Otherwise, she lost her opportunity for your attention. If she actually wants to meet up with you, she'll enter your frame. If she doesn't, low interest. Next.

Like who tf does she think she is coming back light-years later to try to conversation you to a beta orbiter? Does she know who she's talking to? Lmao. She must not've known the whole SoSuave forum would be on the case. Silly little girl.

You were 100% right dude. I am soooooo done with these stupid slvts. Alpha Male Game all the way. When you read my rage report/field report you'll understand exactly why I feel this way. Fvck that "connecting" shyt. After I do my school I'm about to watch every AMS Video ever made and have a comprehensive Dating Strategy

 

[nicksaiz65]

“She randomly hit me up today asking if I’m going to the college bar. She said she wanted someone to go with. “
Still has Low interest and is disrespectful.
Wouldn’t surprise me if one of her ex bf is also there, could be using you to make him jealous.
I would tell her that you are busy that night and then invite her out another night and you pick the place. Anything but a yes, is a no.

You hit the nail on the head my dude... this is EXACTLY what happened and I feel dumb for falling for this baby trap

 

[GrowingPains]

I swear I'm too nice with women. I have to be more Red Pilled and hardened. I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and go out with her. I got used and abused to no end. I realized that and I dipped without even telling her goodnight. I'll type up the whole story here and in my journal. But I'm basically about to type up a whole rant against women.

I don't even know anymore. I thought this hybrid Game would work. But all women seem to want to do is use, confuse, neglect, and abuse me. I swear I'm about to strictly abide by what AMS says and that's it. Fvck these stupid hoes. I tried to be nice. But I'm lowkey done, I'm about to just turn myself into an extreme Alpha Male and only do what AMS says.

I'll put my angry rant both in here and in my journal.

I really think that pure Alpha Male(AMS) is the way to go. These hoes are fvcking cold blooded manipulators. No more being nice. Alpha Male Game is the only way to get them. I'm gonna go pure AMS and see where that gets me. I must be an Alpha Male, I come off as a too nice Beta Male.

Calm calm.

The world works the way it does. Just saw the red pill land stop hiding it under your tongue like the guy from SpongeBob.

You just have to start putting yourself in a position of power in these interactions. That's why you feel used, they have all the power. How can you make sure you don't lose it? Start by thinking about what you want from the interaction. And make your moves according to that. Anything that she does that she does to derail you of your end goal is shifting the power in the relationship. If you give in to her frame, you are giving her power.

I've never really explored this idea so if I'm wrong, someone correct me.

Also, failure is necessary. Because you snoozed, you are awakening. Because you fell, you can get up and avoid falling again. Failures are the building blocks of success. Knowing what not to do will often be more valuable than knowing what to do.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Calm calm.

The world works the way it does. Just saw the red pill land stop hiding it under your tongue like the guy from SpongeBob.

You just have to start putting yourself in a position of power in these interactions. That's why you feel used, they have all the power. How can you make sure you don't lose it? Start by thinking about what you want from the interaction. And make your moves according to that. Anything that she does that she does to derail you of your end goal is shifting the power in the relationship. If you give in to her frame, you are giving her power.

I've never really explored this idea so if I'm wrong, someone correct me.

Also, failure is necessary. Because you snoozed, you are awakening. Because you fell, you can get up and avoid falling again. Failures are the building blocks of success. Knowing what not to do will often be more valuable than knowing what to do.

Well I'm super pissed that I got used... but somehow I feel more aware. Now I know EXACTLY what I need to do with Game and my weaknesses. I feel like I was in the dark and someone turned on a light switch with this most recent failure. Gonna buy AMS' audiobook and listen to it a million times. Hell, I may even get some personal coaching from him if I can save for it. I'll do whatever it takes to be one of the world's best seducers and I think AMS is the path.

I'm already calming down. I'm still gonna rant and rage, but at least I'm getting more coherent thoughts onto paper.

Btw Spongebob is hilarious and the best cartoon ever

 

[Ranger]

Put the hammer down. Seriously. Fukking slam this out. No more pu$$y footing around. Say this...

“I’m not too interested in a date. In reality, I’m for sex only. I’m sure there’s plenty of noodles you could go with.”

Boom!!!

 

[Bullbearpig]

Tell us what happened.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I don’t see why women always have to try to use me... just ignore me if you don’t like me lol. Don’t try to use me. If girls didn’t do this shyt we wouldn’t even need Game or Outcome Independence

Their excercising their abundance. We dont have to submit to their whims.