"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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low interest ... any chance?

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Hi
Is there any chance of hooking up with a girl I went out with once that has signs of low interest. We went out a couple weeks ago and she said she had a really good time and said she she would like to go out again but never contacts me. She replys to my texts (I text rarely like once a week) but most the time her responses are pretty cold ... She never mentions hanging out ... For example today I asked what shes doing today and she wrote back "I got called into work. I'm on call :("
It's really frustrating and usually a girl that is interested will make an effort to show that... I've only really asked her out for a second date once (today)...
I'm pretty busy the next couple weeks so maybe I should just lay low and she if she contacts me? Or I could put some pressure on and say look I'm really busy the next couple weeks do you want to try to schedule sometime...
which one is better?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In b4 somebody says "spin more plates."
 
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Any additional details like should I tell her I am going out of town for a week ( I am) . Will she disappear if I just stop contacting her for abit?
 
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t510 said:
Any additional details like should I tell her I am going out of town for a week ( I am) .
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Seriously though dude, do you REALLY think that a chick that admiited to having low interest in you actually gives a f#ck that you're going out of town for a week?

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Will she disappear if I just stop contacting her for abit?
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If she does, what bearing will it have on your life?
 
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Ok I agree.

Would you even bother asking her out again
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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When you're in scarcity you start to rationalize foolish behavior. Don't go down that road. Start spinning plates. Talk to more girls. You will understand what effect that will have on you.
 
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t510 said:
Ok I agree.

Would you even bother asking her out again
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Rex only gives a chick one chance to reject him.
 
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Seriously, OP has been here since 2011 and is asking this question?

Here is an example of UNINFORMED.
 
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why would she even bothering answering my texts... and seems bummed she can't hang out...
 
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She answers your texts for one of a few reasons:

1. She has low interest but likes attention which means you are friendzoned
2. There's another guy that she's more into so she's stringing you along just in case
3. She doesn't want to completely blow you off so she answers, but gives you nothing to work with

Go no contact. No texts. No emails. No calls. See if she reaches out in a week or two. If she does, set a time to meet up. There are countless threads on this type of female behavior. Read Nismo's "your princess is in another castle" threads. Solid info there. Oh, and talk to other girls. You'll soon forget all about this one.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=191182

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=192273
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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