Low desire to have sex. Any advice?

[themusicman]

Hey fellas. So I'm lucky enough to be in a relationship with this AMAZING girl. We've been dating for about five months now and it's going great. But I've been having a lot of problems with a low desire for sex. It's definitely not an issue of attraction. She's gorgeous, banging body and great at sex. And no ED issues. It's just that I work full time and am also a weightlifting competitor. So after a full 12-14 hour day of crushing it hard at work and in the gym, I'm just beat, and when I get home to her all I want to do is crash and go to sleep. I can tell it bothers her because (fortunately) she has a really high sex drive, and I want to be able to do it with her more often. Anybody experienced this and have tips on how I can improve my drive?

 

[themusicman]

Thanks bradd. No PEDs (or history of them), we're WADA tested randomly. I think you're onto something with too high of a work/recovery ratio with the lifting. I'll drop the volume slightly and see if it helps