"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Low desire to have sex. Any advice?

themusicman

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Hey fellas. So I'm lucky enough to be in a relationship with this AMAZING girl. We've been dating for about five months now and it's going great. But I've been having a lot of problems with a low desire for sex. It's definitely not an issue of attraction. She's gorgeous, banging body and great at sex. And no ED issues. It's just that I work full time and am also a weightlifting competitor. So after a full 12-14 hour day of crushing it hard at work and in the gym, I'm just beat, and when I get home to her all I want to do is crash and go to sleep. I can tell it bothers her because (fortunately) she has a really high sex drive, and I want to be able to do it with her more often. Anybody experienced this and have tips on how I can improve my drive?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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themusicman

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Thanks bradd. No PEDs (or history of them), we're WADA tested randomly. I think you're onto something with too high of a work/recovery ratio with the lifting. I'll drop the volume slightly and see if it helps
 
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