squirrels
Master Don Juan
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My opinion is that marriages shouldn't need to "make a marriage work." If you're marrying someone, it should ALREADY be working.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Love...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well, that's not how it goes. I had a phenomenal realtionship for 5 years...and I came very close to marrying him. We got along wonderfully and was very happy. In fact, we were so happy together that anyone around us couldn't help but smile...we just emitted incredible positive energy. We never hurt each other with words, never argued and never raised our voices or swore at each other...not even one time.
Even in a relationship like this, there was still issues and challenges that had to be sorted out and worked through. There will always be issues and challenges that pop up...but when you have a good, healthy relationship you are much better able to resolve them.
THIAGO BRAZIL
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love is the thing that ppl named to give some reason for the necessity of fullfilment that the person "in love" needs to excuse his or her acts of stupidity and afczism.
I mean
it´s an excuse to dont take control of your life and give the responsability of this lack of discipline and focus to loooooove
there is no love thing.
I mean
it´s an excuse to dont take control of your life and give the responsability of this lack of discipline and focus to loooooove
there is no love thing.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
well...I dont exactly know or give a **** what love is. I dont need to. I know that I always try to make a positive impact on the lives of every person I meet.
if one women...stands out and I feel stronger or different for her over the others..then that is who I will choose or prefere to be with
if one women...stands out and I feel stronger or different for her over the others..then that is who I will choose or prefere to be with