Ll Principe
Don Juan
If a girl/woman ask you...
"Why do you love me?"
-Whats a good response- (I want to make her MELT)
"Why do you love me?"
-Whats a good response- (I want to make her MELT)
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Love
- Thread starter Ll Principe
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
Come on now...
Saying those things is only going to get the girl wondering..
"Is he playing me?"
"Does he really love me?"
Something more REAL please
Yes, those things can work but if you are having an intimate moment I think those things that you mentioned,Nighthawk, arent exactly what needs to be said at that moment..
Example: "I was hoping you knew"
She: "So you dont have a reason?"
You: ???
Saying those things is only going to get the girl wondering..
"Is he playing me?"
"Does he really love me?"
Something more REAL please
Yes, those things can work but if you are having an intimate moment I think those things that you mentioned,Nighthawk, arent exactly what needs to be said at that moment..
Example: "I was hoping you knew"
She: "So you dont have a reason?"
You: ???
Well, I'm assuming you know this is about picking up women... not so much LTR's... however, if it were me, I wouldn't answer.
Its none of her concern why I love her, if she asks again I'd follow up with 'It shouldn't matter why I do.'
Essentially she is compliment fishing and testing you at the same time. Keep your frame. Its like if some girl came up and said 'Do you think I look hot?'... most guys go 'Yea really hot!' and then she runs off feeling very good about herself. Now if you said 'Well, I definitely like the earings.' It would be more effective in keeping her attention because you've given a sneaky compliment+neg mix.
Its none of her concern why I love her, if she asks again I'd follow up with 'It shouldn't matter why I do.'
Essentially she is compliment fishing and testing you at the same time. Keep your frame. Its like if some girl came up and said 'Do you think I look hot?'... most guys go 'Yea really hot!' and then she runs off feeling very good about herself. Now if you said 'Well, I definitely like the earings.' It would be more effective in keeping her attention because you've given a sneaky compliment+neg mix.