Ll Principe
Don Juan
If a girl/woman ask you...
"Why do you love me?"
-Whats a good response- (I want to make her MELT)
"Why do you love me?"
-Whats a good response- (I want to make her MELT)
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Love
- Thread starter Ll Principe
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
Come on now...
Saying those things is only going to get the girl wondering..
"Is he playing me?"
"Does he really love me?"
Something more REAL please
Yes, those things can work but if you are having an intimate moment I think those things that you mentioned,Nighthawk, arent exactly what needs to be said at that moment..
Example: "I was hoping you knew"
She: "So you dont have a reason?"
You: ???
Saying those things is only going to get the girl wondering..
"Is he playing me?"
"Does he really love me?"
Something more REAL please
Yes, those things can work but if you are having an intimate moment I think those things that you mentioned,Nighthawk, arent exactly what needs to be said at that moment..
Example: "I was hoping you knew"
She: "So you dont have a reason?"
You: ???
Well, I'm assuming you know this is about picking up women... not so much LTR's... however, if it were me, I wouldn't answer.
Its none of her concern why I love her, if she asks again I'd follow up with 'It shouldn't matter why I do.'
Essentially she is compliment fishing and testing you at the same time. Keep your frame. Its like if some girl came up and said 'Do you think I look hot?'... most guys go 'Yea really hot!' and then she runs off feeling very good about herself. Now if you said 'Well, I definitely like the earings.' It would be more effective in keeping her attention because you've given a sneaky compliment+neg mix.
Its none of her concern why I love her, if she asks again I'd follow up with 'It shouldn't matter why I do.'
Essentially she is compliment fishing and testing you at the same time. Keep your frame. Its like if some girl came up and said 'Do you think I look hot?'... most guys go 'Yea really hot!' and then she runs off feeling very good about herself. Now if you said 'Well, I definitely like the earings.' It would be more effective in keeping her attention because you've given a sneaky compliment+neg mix.