Ll Principe
Don Juan
If a girl/woman ask you...
"Why do you love me?"
-Whats a good response- (I want to make her MELT)
"Why do you love me?"
-Whats a good response- (I want to make her MELT)
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Love
- Thread starter Ll Principe
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
Come on now...
Saying those things is only going to get the girl wondering..
"Is he playing me?"
"Does he really love me?"
Something more REAL please
Yes, those things can work but if you are having an intimate moment I think those things that you mentioned,Nighthawk, arent exactly what needs to be said at that moment..
Example: "I was hoping you knew"
She: "So you dont have a reason?"
You: ???
Saying those things is only going to get the girl wondering..
"Is he playing me?"
"Does he really love me?"
Something more REAL please
Yes, those things can work but if you are having an intimate moment I think those things that you mentioned,Nighthawk, arent exactly what needs to be said at that moment..
Example: "I was hoping you knew"
She: "So you dont have a reason?"
You: ???
Well, I'm assuming you know this is about picking up women... not so much LTR's... however, if it were me, I wouldn't answer.
Its none of her concern why I love her, if she asks again I'd follow up with 'It shouldn't matter why I do.'
Essentially she is compliment fishing and testing you at the same time. Keep your frame. Its like if some girl came up and said 'Do you think I look hot?'... most guys go 'Yea really hot!' and then she runs off feeling very good about herself. Now if you said 'Well, I definitely like the earings.' It would be more effective in keeping her attention because you've given a sneaky compliment+neg mix.
Its none of her concern why I love her, if she asks again I'd follow up with 'It shouldn't matter why I do.'
Essentially she is compliment fishing and testing you at the same time. Keep your frame. Its like if some girl came up and said 'Do you think I look hot?'... most guys go 'Yea really hot!' and then she runs off feeling very good about herself. Now if you said 'Well, I definitely like the earings.' It would be more effective in keeping her attention because you've given a sneaky compliment+neg mix.