"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
love songs
- Thread starter Alittude
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Sting - Desert Rose
KarmaSutra
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Sade - anything she's ever recorded!
Miles Davis - Kind of blue
D'angelo
KontrollerX
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Endless Love- Luther Vandross and Mariah Carey
I'll make love to you- Boyz II Men
I have nothing- Whitney Houston
I wanna run to you- Whitney Houston
When will I see you again- Babyface
Konstantine - Something Korporate
If You're Not the One - Daniel Beddingfield
You and Me - Lifehouse
Crash - Dave Matthews Band
Crush - Dave Matthews Band
I play guitar/piano/sing and the girls love those ones...good luck singing the dan beddingfield one though, you have to castrate yourself first
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Every Little Thing I Do(Your On My Mind) - Allure
Trade It All Pt. 2-Fabulous
Beautiful-Snoop Dogg & Fharell
85-Youngbloodz
I Need Love,Around The Way Girl,Doin It,Lougin,Hey Lover - LL Cool J
Personally I just play ZZ Top most of the time when I have a lady in the car.
SADE IS GREAT!IT SHOWS YOU HAVE CLASS, IAM COMPLEMENTED FOR LISTENING TO IT ALL THE TIME "WOW YOUR 18 AND LISTEN TO SADE? NOW THERE IS SOMEONE YOUNG WITH CLASS."
Personally I have found that if they like you enough they will listen to whatever YOU want with the exception to Metallica and hard rock.