"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
love songs
- Thread starter Alittude
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Sting - Desert Rose
KarmaSutra
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Sade - anything she's ever recorded!
Miles Davis - Kind of blue
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Endless Love- Luther Vandross and Mariah Carey
I'll make love to you- Boyz II Men
I have nothing- Whitney Houston
I wanna run to you- Whitney Houston
When will I see you again- Babyface
Konstantine - Something Korporate
If You're Not the One - Daniel Beddingfield
You and Me - Lifehouse
Crash - Dave Matthews Band
Crush - Dave Matthews Band
I play guitar/piano/sing and the girls love those ones...good luck singing the dan beddingfield one though, you have to castrate yourself first
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Every Little Thing I Do(Your On My Mind) - Allure
Trade It All Pt. 2-Fabulous
Beautiful-Snoop Dogg & Fharell
85-Youngbloodz
I Need Love,Around The Way Girl,Doin It,Lougin,Hey Lover - LL Cool J
Personally I just play ZZ Top most of the time when I have a lady in the car.
SADE IS GREAT!IT SHOWS YOU HAVE CLASS, IAM COMPLEMENTED FOR LISTENING TO IT ALL THE TIME "WOW YOUR 18 AND LISTEN TO SADE? NOW THERE IS SOMEONE YOUNG WITH CLASS."
Personally I have found that if they like you enough they will listen to whatever YOU want with the exception to Metallica and hard rock.