"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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asking a girl out HELP!!

I am going to ask a girl out 2moro. I met her at a club, i knew her before as a mate. I speak to her in text and stuff. Anyone got any tips on how and when to ask the question? HELP!!
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What was so special about her? This is unhealthy for you to be like this.
 
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Well why do you like this girl so much? I've met girls that I was WOWed by but I never pursued but do you have this girls number? Did you have sex with her or kiss her? Are you planning to see her again? What's the story with this girl?
 
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*yawn*

Originally posted by Will900
I am getting this sick feeling in my stomach and it hurts alot. I met a girl at a club last nite and i really liked her and feel sick. HELP!! She was the girl of my dreams i love her so much. Is there any cure for love sickness? I kissed her a couple of times. I really want things to work out between us. I am planning to see her again. HELP!!!!
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This is normal.... if you still feel the same way in a week or 2 about her (without contacting her) THEN i will tell u that its prob love @ 1st sight... otherwise, what u are feeling is perfectly normall, give it a week or 2, it will pass.


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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Will900
I am getting this sick feeling in my stomach and it hurts alot. I met a girl at a club last nite and i really liked her and feel sick. HELP!! She was the girl of my dreams i love her so much. Is there any cure for love sickness? I kissed her a couple of times. I really want things to work out between us. I am planning to see her again. HELP!!!!
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think about your situation, you are not in love with her...u hardly know her. Go out and meet 10 more girls. After that I doubt she will seem so special.
 
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Dude, Pepto- Bismal might help. Just get out and meet more girls. There are plenty of them out there.
 
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Calm down

I felt the same way about a really hot girl a two years ago. It was one girls at the regional Hawaiian Tropic girls search. Couldn't get her out of my head, had trouble sleeping at night. I though I was going going crazy.

Fortunately the girl was a local and I saw her again at The Whiskey Inside of Green Valley Ranch. I though I was going to loose it, but after I had a few shots and a few drinks I was all loosed up and ready for office hours. I worked my way in there, got the didgets and eventually rounded the bases with her over the course over about two or three weeks.

Obviously things didn't work out with her in the long run. After the alcohol wore off from the first time I met her I realized how easy it was to pick her up but being nervous to the point of making myself nuts wouldn't make anything better. So get yourself undercontrol. What you do from that point is up to you but you have to have a clear head in life regardless of what you're doing. Girls or otherwise you need to be some what focused. It makes life a lot easier and a lot less stressful.
 
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