"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I must confess I don't have too much experience with "true love", or simply mutual (extremely) high interest level and attraction (over time).

A strange phenomenon seems to happen when you "make love" versus have sex with a woman. You will likely be face to face and she will be kissing you. It sort feels like a mushroom (or salvia divinorum) trip where you disconnect from all else while connecting to them. There is almost an element of the Divine, as if it's a religious experience. Time stands still. If you have sex with 25 women it might happen once or twice. Though words can't quite describe it, both of you agree that you "felt it", and afterward they often start talking ragtime (hence the term "fvck her brains out"). That's when they reveal their innermost secrets.

Is this just hormones playing tricks? Has anyone else experienced this?

PS - After writing the above I found this quote that seems to describe it:

"The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. It inundates your entire being. It delivers you - body and soul - to unimagined heights of ecstasy. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to, and a gift of Enlightenment." - Lonny Brown Ph. D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bigneil said:
I must confess I don't have too much experience with "true love", or simply mutual (extremely) high interest level and attraction (over time).

A strange phenomenon seems to happen when you "make love" versus have sex with a woman. You will likely be face to face and she will be kissing you. It sort feels like a mushroom (or salvia divinorum) trip where you disconnect from all else while connecting to them. There is almost an element of the Divine, as if it's a religious experience. Time stands still. If you have sex with 25 women it might happen once or twice. Though words can't quite describe it, both of you agree that you "felt it", and afterward they often start talking ragtime (hence the term "fvck her brains out"). That's when they reveal their innermost secrets.

Is this just hormones playing tricks? Has anyone else experienced this?

PS - After writing the above I found this quote that seems to describe it:

"The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. It inundates your entire being. It delivers you - body and soul - to unimagined heights of ecstasy. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to, and a gift of Enlightenment." - Lonny Brown Ph. D
It is hormones, in part. The problem is that, in a time where everyone can see the life of others, people are always jealous of what seems to be a bigger, better love. Truth is what you describe is infatuation. After a while this might die down. Nonetheless, love can remain. It's just that we, women in particular, expect too much from love. It's not being swept of your feet every time. Love is much much deeper than that. I'd say you can only love a woman after having been with her for 10 years. Anything before that is infatuation.
 

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I saw it more as a connection to God YAboi.

Also, given how rare it is, there is no way you could get married first and find enlightenment.

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