"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I must confess I don't have too much experience with "true love", or simply mutual (extremely) high interest level and attraction (over time).

A strange phenomenon seems to happen when you "make love" versus have sex with a woman. You will likely be face to face and she will be kissing you. It sort feels like a mushroom (or salvia divinorum) trip where you disconnect from all else while connecting to them. There is almost an element of the Divine, as if it's a religious experience. Time stands still. If you have sex with 25 women it might happen once or twice. Though words can't quite describe it, both of you agree that you "felt it", and afterward they often start talking ragtime (hence the term "fvck her brains out"). That's when they reveal their innermost secrets.

Is this just hormones playing tricks? Has anyone else experienced this?

PS - After writing the above I found this quote that seems to describe it:

"The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. It inundates your entire being. It delivers you - body and soul - to unimagined heights of ecstasy. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to, and a gift of Enlightenment." - Lonny Brown Ph. D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bigneil said:
I must confess I don't have too much experience with "true love", or simply mutual (extremely) high interest level and attraction (over time).

A strange phenomenon seems to happen when you "make love" versus have sex with a woman. You will likely be face to face and she will be kissing you. It sort feels like a mushroom (or salvia divinorum) trip where you disconnect from all else while connecting to them. There is almost an element of the Divine, as if it's a religious experience. Time stands still. If you have sex with 25 women it might happen once or twice. Though words can't quite describe it, both of you agree that you "felt it", and afterward they often start talking ragtime (hence the term "fvck her brains out"). That's when they reveal their innermost secrets.

Is this just hormones playing tricks? Has anyone else experienced this?

PS - After writing the above I found this quote that seems to describe it:

"The high art of making True Love is mystical and miraculous beyond comprehension. It inundates your entire being. It delivers you - body and soul - to unimagined heights of ecstasy. The discovery of the key to the union of spirituality and sexuality is at once a path to, and a gift of Enlightenment." - Lonny Brown Ph. D
It is hormones, in part. The problem is that, in a time where everyone can see the life of others, people are always jealous of what seems to be a bigger, better love. Truth is what you describe is infatuation. After a while this might die down. Nonetheless, love can remain. It's just that we, women in particular, expect too much from love. It's not being swept of your feet every time. Love is much much deeper than that. I'd say you can only love a woman after having been with her for 10 years. Anything before that is infatuation.
 

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I saw it more as a connection to God YAboi.

Also, given how rare it is, there is no way you could get married first and find enlightenment.

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