"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Love, sex, energy

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all we people really need is love

insecurity comes from not being able to love people and enjoy them

detesting women comes from just masturbating oneself with a vagina, you dont care for her, how she feels against you, how she sobs and gasps as you penetrate and both of you derive pleasure from each other


sex is the highest extension of love (because you should be totally giving yourself (all your love) away, with the body and inner you, hoping the other person will give it back as well and don't leave you) thats why if you have no love you will have no sex (or bad sex, without any connection)


how do you love? realize we are all just energy, and we have much better lives if we give pleasure and love and then have someone be kind enough to give it to us
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would advise you guys to think about this for some time, since I am not afraid to say this is one of the most important pieces of advice written on this site. (it was touched on before as well in different forms)


The true love is what happens after infatuation is gone - when things get worse and you still care and give up your time for the person.

But on a purely emotional level, love and giving love is amazing and I promise you your lives will become happier and more people will reach out to you and want to be with you.

I remember in junior high the start athletes who was a cool guy and girls loved him. I was thinking he was popular hence why, but then I realized - he actually made everyone feel better. Cheering people on during games, giving little compliments, being nice, not judging. You can't NOT like the guy.

I encourage all of you to try it out - pretend we are all the same energy as people, and we give off love and get it back from people. FEEL the connection - imagine walking up to a girl and just saying "Wow, I really dig your vibe, what's your name?" and taking it from there.

Let us know how it went
 
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Yep its all about giving love to people. Bringing joy to their lives. To give is to receive.
 
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I dont love anyone and i get a lot of girls, love just brings problems and drama.

Love yourself and thats it.
 
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