"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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all we people really need is love

insecurity comes from not being able to love people and enjoy them

detesting women comes from just masturbating oneself with a vagina, you dont care for her, how she feels against you, how she sobs and gasps as you penetrate and both of you derive pleasure from each other


sex is the highest extension of love (because you should be totally giving yourself (all your love) away, with the body and inner you, hoping the other person will give it back as well and don't leave you) thats why if you have no love you will have no sex (or bad sex, without any connection)


how do you love? realize we are all just energy, and we have much better lives if we give pleasure and love and then have someone be kind enough to give it to us
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would advise you guys to think about this for some time, since I am not afraid to say this is one of the most important pieces of advice written on this site. (it was touched on before as well in different forms)


The true love is what happens after infatuation is gone - when things get worse and you still care and give up your time for the person.

But on a purely emotional level, love and giving love is amazing and I promise you your lives will become happier and more people will reach out to you and want to be with you.

I remember in junior high the start athletes who was a cool guy and girls loved him. I was thinking he was popular hence why, but then I realized - he actually made everyone feel better. Cheering people on during games, giving little compliments, being nice, not judging. You can't NOT like the guy.

I encourage all of you to try it out - pretend we are all the same energy as people, and we give off love and get it back from people. FEEL the connection - imagine walking up to a girl and just saying "Wow, I really dig your vibe, what's your name?" and taking it from there.

Let us know how it went
 

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Yep its all about giving love to people. Bringing joy to their lives. To give is to receive.
 

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I dont love anyone and i get a lot of girls, love just brings problems and drama.

Love yourself and thats it.
 
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