Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Yep. I remember many times within the span of weeks I went from “this is the most healthy relationship I’ve ever been in. My therapist even said I need to hold on to you because you’re good for me” and a few weeks later it was “I’m sorry I just am not looking to be in a serious relationship right now” which I knew meant she’d found another guy.
The more diks they take, the more brain damaged they become lol
Gives a whole new meaning to the expression "fvcked in the head".
She was in therapy.. That's where you went wrong.
They’re all in therapy these days. Or if they aren’t they need to be.
Any girl in therapy.. on meds, recreational use only.. it's cool we all learn the hard way.
I'd advise against even that to be honest, bro. More likely to make accusations against you or cause you other problems even if recreational use only. Best left alone, I reckon.
Right but how do you even manage to hug them in the first place?
To random strangers? To thick hb7+ ladies? To a female boss/manager at work? To a police woman?
I don't know if I can buy that for Canada and in particular Toronto, Canada. Sounds too much like fantasy-territory that could land you into trouble up here. Maybe Amsterdam (ie where you are from) is a more sex-positive and open culture then these parts. If the people there are that nice there, then I don't think I would even need to visit the Red Light district and would likely just interact with civvies.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
I don't think it's a bad thing. I remember having a crush on a girl a few times, and I've never had so much energy in my life. Made working out super easy too.
There's something in this, although the energy and motivation can also take a hit if and when things go wrong.
True, but that's life. It has its ups and downs. If passion were not useful for human survival, it probably wouldn't exist.
