"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah seems a little odd to me too Alpha. Good insight as always, you should post here more often mate. Regards.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks for the complement Templeton.

Originally posted by OddTech
I am what people called "skinny fat." That means I am skinny but I still have some love handles. I was like wise mage and I wanted to lose the love handles.
I can relate to that. When I was skinny with not that much fat around my waist (67kg at 9% bf) my obliques poked out because my my back wasn't that wide proportionatly. (Actually in hind sight they weren't that bad compared to now but I wasn't happy with them at the time).

Now I've got a good V shape but I've still got love handles simply because I'm carrying a 30lb tyre of fat around my waist (I'm now 114kg at about 25% bf). If I lost the 30lb tyre (which I am slowly working on - lost about 15lb in the last 6 month) I think I would finally have my love handle problem beat.

I think the solution is both low body fat and wide back V shape. Just one or the other doesn't work (I know from experience I've tried both but not together). I don't think wise_mage is going to get any where with the V shape thing unless he increases his back size; I think it very unlikely it is too big if he's at 61kg.

If wise mage looked like my pic below then I think he'd have a point (I've certainly got a problem with love handles but in my case it is just 30lb of fat that needs to be lost by plain old self discipline).

http://f2.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/donjuan2862/lst2?.tok=bcLN0FSBUct8LBUG&.dir=/My+Photos&.src=ph

edited to change link - if it doesn't work don't worry your not missing much just a picture of a fat guys back with a great V shape (down to my waist) but which is then completely ruined by massive love handles bulging out.
 
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