"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lounge Convo / Games

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Hi guys,

What are some convo and games that you can play with someone you have known for some time? One that comes to mind is a game that 26 plays... **** Marry Kill... which sounds like fun; mabe go on to observe relationships, make fun of ppl together; dance ofcourse... any other suggestions or elaboration on what I listed? I think I have the games part figured... but what about convo material?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Have I been asking retarted questions latly? I hope not... I'm sure you guys have been in a lounge type setting. Some of you might know of fun topics to talk about... for some reason I can only come up with game ideas : \
 

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F-Marry-Kill is a Howard Stern game. 26 and I would have a great time with this when we were hanging out. Girls really seem to like it too.

There aren't really a whole lot of games to play in a lounge setting. Maybe some drinking games.

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Thanks for the correction. Now that I remmember, 26 did mention that... The drinking games are gonna be hard cuz I have to drive back. The games I can make up, its the stuff inbetween the games (for conversation) that I am wondering about. Since it is a lounce setting I will have more chance to talk a bit clearly than nightclubs. Should I avoid the talking thing altogether because I arleady know her and just go with the games, and conversate if she innitiates it on a subject?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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