"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lounge Convo / Games

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Hi guys,

What are some convo and games that you can play with someone you have known for some time? One that comes to mind is a game that 26 plays... **** Marry Kill... which sounds like fun; mabe go on to observe relationships, make fun of ppl together; dance ofcourse... any other suggestions or elaboration on what I listed? I think I have the games part figured... but what about convo material?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have I been asking retarted questions latly? I hope not... I'm sure you guys have been in a lounge type setting. Some of you might know of fun topics to talk about... for some reason I can only come up with game ideas : \
 
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F-Marry-Kill is a Howard Stern game. 26 and I would have a great time with this when we were hanging out. Girls really seem to like it too.

There aren't really a whole lot of games to play in a lounge setting. Maybe some drinking games.

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Thanks for the correction. Now that I remmember, 26 did mention that... The drinking games are gonna be hard cuz I have to drive back. The games I can make up, its the stuff inbetween the games (for conversation) that I am wondering about. Since it is a lounce setting I will have more chance to talk a bit clearly than nightclubs. Should I avoid the talking thing altogether because I arleady know her and just go with the games, and conversate if she innitiates it on a subject?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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