"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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loud or laid back?

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Alright since alot of you are experts I want to know do girls preffer guys that are loud or laid back?



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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just be what you are...you cant be loud if youre naturally laid back and you cant be laid back if your natuarally loud....There are as big loud djs as there are laid back djs
 
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I prefer guys that have vaginas and tits
 
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Originally posted by KillaPetehog
It's a tough call. (shrugs shoulders)

Loud is always associated with charisma, humor and an outgoing personality.

Of course if the guy is loud but doesn't have the traits to go with it...he's obnoxious.

Laid back is sometimes associated with mystery.

Although some women don't like a guy who's too laid back, cuz they tend to associate that with laziness or lack of ambition.....and women LOVE ambition.
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youre thinking of the laid back guy as sort of a stoner....

a laid back guy can have plenty of ambiton, he will just be more composed and will keep his cool most of the time, and wont put up a scene as a loud guy would...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is an interesting post. Laid back provokes: mystery, sexiness, and confidence. Loud provokes: some confiedence and humor. I think it is good to be a mix of both. Be laid back a lot but also be loud wen needed.
 
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"laid back" is fine as long as there's no "loud" DJs around.

AFC>laid back>loud
 
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