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loud or laid back?

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Alright since alot of you are experts I want to know do girls preffer guys that are loud or laid back?



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just be what you are...you cant be loud if youre naturally laid back and you cant be laid back if your natuarally loud....There are as big loud djs as there are laid back djs
 
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I prefer guys that have vaginas and tits
 
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Originally posted by KillaPetehog
It's a tough call. (shrugs shoulders)

Loud is always associated with charisma, humor and an outgoing personality.

Of course if the guy is loud but doesn't have the traits to go with it...he's obnoxious.

Laid back is sometimes associated with mystery.

Although some women don't like a guy who's too laid back, cuz they tend to associate that with laziness or lack of ambition.....and women LOVE ambition.
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youre thinking of the laid back guy as sort of a stoner....

a laid back guy can have plenty of ambiton, he will just be more composed and will keep his cool most of the time, and wont put up a scene as a loud guy would...
 

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This is an interesting post. Laid back provokes: mystery, sexiness, and confidence. Loud provokes: some confiedence and humor. I think it is good to be a mix of both. Be laid back a lot but also be loud wen needed.
 
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"laid back" is fine as long as there's no "loud" DJs around.

AFC>laid back>loud
 
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