"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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loud or laid back?

avrilishot

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Alright since alot of you are experts I want to know do girls preffer guys that are loud or laid back?



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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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just be what you are...you cant be loud if youre naturally laid back and you cant be laid back if your natuarally loud....There are as big loud djs as there are laid back djs
 

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I prefer guys that have vaginas and tits
 

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Originally posted by KillaPetehog
It's a tough call. (shrugs shoulders)

Loud is always associated with charisma, humor and an outgoing personality.

Of course if the guy is loud but doesn't have the traits to go with it...he's obnoxious.

Laid back is sometimes associated with mystery.

Although some women don't like a guy who's too laid back, cuz they tend to associate that with laziness or lack of ambition.....and women LOVE ambition.
youre thinking of the laid back guy as sort of a stoner....

a laid back guy can have plenty of ambiton, he will just be more composed and will keep his cool most of the time, and wont put up a scene as a loud guy would...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is an interesting post. Laid back provokes: mystery, sexiness, and confidence. Loud provokes: some confiedence and humor. I think it is good to be a mix of both. Be laid back a lot but also be loud wen needed.
 

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"laid back" is fine as long as there's no "loud" DJs around.

AFC>laid back>loud
 
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