Lots of different pictures of me and different girls

[montybrown]

On my MySpace I have a lot of pictures of myself and different girls in like every picture. I have an album called "having fun" and its just a lot of pictures of me showing that i'm social and outgoing and I talk to lots of different girls.

This one girl told me that I am disrespecting all these girls and I am making it seem like it's a count list to see how many pictures I can have with different girls. She also said that it's a turn off and I wont ever get a girl because they will think "Wow this guy is a man wh0re!" and she also said that when a girl sees me posing in a pic with another girl holding her, why would she want to be with me for? It won't make her jealous, it'll turn her off and go for another guy.

Any idea/thoughts on this?

 

[HandyAndy]

Tell that girls shes a social retard and your only having fun, its not your fault shes lame and never goes out.

 

[The Deacon]

Honestly, it sounds like she's jealous.

 

[Effington]

She's obviously being ridiculous. It's disrespectful to take pictures with friends? Riiight.

She may be into you, but suspects you would treat her poorly.

 

[MooseGod]

It could go either way--you could be the kind of douche that posts lots of pictures of himself on MySpace with lots of different girls in a pathetic attempt to make people think he's a social, outgoing, cool dude....

...Or you could just be a guy who has lots of friends and has pictures that they can all comment on and reminisce about how trashed they were that night...

Which one is it?

 

[Iron]

Hmmm thats an interesting debate. I know it's different if a guy has, for example, a million half naked girl posters in his room...that shows he's a horny a$$ mofo.....but in terms of your Myspace....all it shows is that you are accepted by lots of women, and that you are social. If it bothers you that girls might think that, perhaps consider more pictures with you and your male buddies....ya know, to balance it out a bit....then they cant complain as much.

To me it sounds like she is either jealous or got d!cked over by an uber-social guy with a million women on each arm and associates all women-approved guys with man-wh0res.

 

[Fleshy99]

Dude, I think you're fine. You're showing that you can be good to people and have fun, its showing reputation(if its a good one) and I think thats pretty priceless. You have to earn alot of girls trust these days, what better way to do it than though other girls?

 

[Retro_Man]

Well it sounds like she's giving you a dose of that vain female (relationship) advice.

But she might also suspect you to be the pretentious sort that poses with pretty acquaintances with the caption "Me and mah chick".

Well if you are doing that then you should tone it down.

 

[Bloke]

To be perfectly honest, when I see people with MySpaces, Facebooks etc. with albums of just him with dozens of girls, I think he's a douche.

I just don't get it.

I have an album called "having fun" and its just a lot of pictures of me showing that i'm social and outgoing and I talk to lots of different girls.

Why do you need to show this ?