"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lots of different pictures of me and different girls

montybrown

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On my MySpace I have a lot of pictures of myself and different girls in like every picture. I have an album called "having fun" and its just a lot of pictures of me showing that i'm social and outgoing and I talk to lots of different girls.

This one girl told me that I am disrespecting all these girls and I am making it seem like it's a count list to see how many pictures I can have with different girls. She also said that it's a turn off and I wont ever get a girl because they will think "Wow this guy is a man wh0re!" and she also said that when a girl sees me posing in a pic with another girl holding her, why would she want to be with me for? It won't make her jealous, it'll turn her off and go for another guy.

Any idea/thoughts on this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Deacon

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Honestly, it sounds like she's jealous.
 

Effington

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She's obviously being ridiculous. It's disrespectful to take pictures with friends? Riiight.

She may be into you, but suspects you would treat her poorly.
 

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It could go either way--you could be the kind of douche that posts lots of pictures of himself on MySpace with lots of different girls in a pathetic attempt to make people think he's a social, outgoing, cool dude....

...Or you could just be a guy who has lots of friends and has pictures that they can all comment on and reminisce about how trashed they were that night...

Which one is it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Iron

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Hmmm thats an interesting debate. I know it's different if a guy has, for example, a million half naked girl posters in his room...that shows he's a horny a$$ mofo.....but in terms of your Myspace....all it shows is that you are accepted by lots of women, and that you are social. If it bothers you that girls might think that, perhaps consider more pictures with you and your male buddies....ya know, to balance it out a bit....then they cant complain as much.

To me it sounds like she is either jealous or got d!cked over by an uber-social guy with a million women on each arm and associates all women-approved guys with man-wh0res.
 

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Dude, I think you're fine. You're showing that you can be good to people and have fun, its showing reputation(if its a good one) and I think thats pretty priceless. You have to earn alot of girls trust these days, what better way to do it than though other girls?
 

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Well it sounds like she's giving you a dose of that vain female (relationship) advice.

But she might also suspect you to be the pretentious sort that poses with pretty acquaintances with the caption "Me and mah chick".

Well if you are doing that then you should tone it down.
 

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To be perfectly honest, when I see people with MySpaces, Facebooks etc. with albums of just him with dozens of girls, I think he's a douche.

I just don't get it.

I have an album called "having fun" and its just a lot of pictures of me showing that i'm social and outgoing and I talk to lots of different girls.

Why do you need to show this ?
 
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