This girl that was always checking me out.... the story is that she didnt come to class yesterday, and we had our exams given out....... and i asked her how she did and shes like i didnt come(i did this indirectly to show her she is the least of my concerns)....... im like what is this a cafe, you come whenever u want, so she laughed and walked off as if she has important things to do this girl is playin harsh..... im lost ............... SOS
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
lost?!?
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squirrels
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Make her come. 
It sounds like you've got the rapport. Stop screwing around and make your pitch.
It sounds like you've got the rapport. Stop screwing around and make your pitch.
how could there have been rapport if i didnt even time to conversate with her if she was all so busy hurrying herself out........ im thinking of still sticking to the old game plan of giving little attention to her since that was the strategy i used to make her initiate the first move...... correct?
squirrels
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Huh? Is that the FIRST time you ever talked to the girl?
actually no its the second time, she came to a group of people i know, to talk about an exam we had taken.... and it seemed as if she wanted attention from me so i talked to her and walked her out of the building and that was it......
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
h2o
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ever heard of a sales pitch? in this context it means go for her number, ask her to join you for coffee, etc.
so update of the whole situation.... today i saw her, but played her game.... actually it was very effective she was blushed the whole time, and fidgeting alot......... anyways remember how i told u guys that she'd always rush out, this time she stalled herself and went out slowly...... so i know, i dont know how long i can keep up like this, goin to get bored somehow.... but since her shell cracked the first time it will crack again..... and im sure of it.......... any comments or tips???
Maverick001
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whiteee,
Pitch means make your play, throw some game at her, etc.
It sounds like things are moving along so keep busting on her and continue doing what works.
Cheers,
Mav
guys this girl is really gettin to me.... im not supposed to be feeling this way im turnin into a wuss.... please help shes been on my mind all weekend this is where the rejection really hurts is when u give importance to someone that doesnt deserve it and then u get shot down and it hurts like a *****, anyways ive got an exam this coming week im goin for the close, dont care if i get shot down i wanna move on........ please someone help..........
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maverick001
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whiteee,
If what you've said above is true you've got to bring more fillies into the fold and ASAP before oneitis gets the better of you bud.
Take a look around. There are PLENTY of single and available chicks right? Go get 'em!
Cheers,
Mav
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Go for the close. If you get rejected, don't worry, you'll survive.
What you should do for practice is get the hell out there and try to get rejected from women. It's like playing guitar, at first your fingers hurt like hell, but after a while you develope callases (sp?) and it quits hurting.
What you should do for practice is get the hell out there and try to get rejected from women. It's like playing guitar, at first your fingers hurt like hell, but after a while you develope callases (sp?) and it quits hurting.
hey guys its me again.... hehe anyways i b4 i had the exam i saw her im like hey shes like hi, and hurried herself into class, but the smile and the gleam in her eye told me something else so i went inside and i asked her how she studied and she seemed semi responsive anyways.... after the exam and for two days she keeps popping up at the weirdest moments where i least expect it, its like "hey you notice me im here," "look at me" anyways its not the fact that im scared or shy, the fact i dont feel she is giving me the oppurtunity to talk with her.... morever as i said its those little actions that speak loudly, and keeps me from losing interest.... btw she also is making friends with one of the girls i know in class, who always approaches me and stufff..... any advice?
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Sounds like you need to hit this girl with the magic of "****y and funny." The next time you see her put a big smile on your face and tease her about something she's wearing or something she said or did. Be playful and make sure she is smiling and giggling or else you aren't doing it right. Do not overuse this technique. After one or two ****y and funny comments switch to more serious conversation geared towards getting to know her, building rapport and showing her that you have alot in common.
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