"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cool dude

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I feel lost in my search for knowledge and also my will to better my self socially and with women. I don't know how to start.

I am thinking about starting with annihilation method or magical bullets.

I don't think it will be worth my time to learn things about being a nartual when I can learn that on my own by getting field experience.

It is really hard for me because I don't have a car ad I don't know to many people. The people I do know don't call me to hang out often.

I am stuck at my house unless I want to take the bus then have to walk home. Which I do sometimes when I am desperate.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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moneyisking

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I got to a point exactly like you, but now I am in a state of mind where I can keep searching for happiness and development.

1. Drop women
2. Read DJ Bible. Especially Book of Pook and Weapon of Mass Seduction.
3. Internalize them, practice, practice, practice them. Don't memorize them like routines and lines, just read them and start convo with girls, and see how much you can bring out what you learned. That's where it all starts.

*if you ignore my post and just keep searching for that "bull shyt" perfect line or technique, you will not only feel miserable but also feel shytty in life. But choice is yours. Either enjoy the development, or development enjoy you.
 

cool dude

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yea,I actually met this dude that is real good at pick up. Me and him are going sargin everyday now at my school. Today sucked because I was in a bad frame. I could not get out of it for some reason. So I started talking to ugly girls. Still no change.

There is a way to go through life and i know the answer is already inside of me. I just need to find a way to bring it back again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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