"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cool dude

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I feel lost in my search for knowledge and also my will to better my self socially and with women. I don't know how to start.

I am thinking about starting with annihilation method or magical bullets.

I don't think it will be worth my time to learn things about being a nartual when I can learn that on my own by getting field experience.

It is really hard for me because I don't have a car ad I don't know to many people. The people I do know don't call me to hang out often.

I am stuck at my house unless I want to take the bus then have to walk home. Which I do sometimes when I am desperate.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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moneyisking

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I got to a point exactly like you, but now I am in a state of mind where I can keep searching for happiness and development.

1. Drop women
2. Read DJ Bible. Especially Book of Pook and Weapon of Mass Seduction.
3. Internalize them, practice, practice, practice them. Don't memorize them like routines and lines, just read them and start convo with girls, and see how much you can bring out what you learned. That's where it all starts.

*if you ignore my post and just keep searching for that "bull shyt" perfect line or technique, you will not only feel miserable but also feel shytty in life. But choice is yours. Either enjoy the development, or development enjoy you.
 

cool dude

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yea,I actually met this dude that is real good at pick up. Me and him are going sargin everyday now at my school. Today sucked because I was in a bad frame. I could not get out of it for some reason. So I started talking to ugly girls. Still no change.

There is a way to go through life and i know the answer is already inside of me. I just need to find a way to bring it back again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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