"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lost weight,

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Lost weight, gained it back, but face stayed thinner.

I had a highly stressful time a few months back which caused me to lose some of my hard-earned weight. It was only 10 pounds though, and I've since gained it back.

Well, I've run into friends on a few separate occasions, people whom I haven't seen since before all this happened. Several have mentioned that I appear to have lost weight, as they stroke their chin to show where I lost it. If I gained the weight back, why did my face not fill back out?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is fat the only kind of "face mass," or does additional muscle also fill out the face? Or is muscle just less effective than fat at filling out the face? I have a narrow chin so I feel more mass is desirable.
 

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Originally posted by Safari
Is fat the only kind of "face mass," or does additional muscle also fill out the face? Or is muscle just less effective than fat at filling out the face? I have a narrow chin so I feel more mass is desirable.
Additional muscle does fill out your face, of course. But the jaw muscle is really the only one you can do something about. Any large amount of face mass you encounter, specially at the chin, can pretty safely be considered fat.

I also desired some face mass, but that's because I'm underweight. Got pics?
 
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