"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lost virginity to each other -- she says no more sex?

faiNt`

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So I have a fairly odd situation. I feel like I could handle it my own way and still get what I want, but I'm interested in opinions on what I should do.

I've been with this girl for a few months, not in a relationship, but hooking-up etc. We had sex for the first time, both of our first times ever, a few weeks ago. She's been really moody since then and I've been ignoring her, focusing on other girls etc. I hit her up today and eventually we get to talking about it. She says she's decided that she isn't going to stay sexually active and that she hasn't been able to sleep well for the last two weeks since we had sex (no condom/pill). When I think back to it, I can say I'm pretty confident that I got it out, so I'm trying not to worry. Although I do plan to use condoms in the future.

Anyway, she said she isn't going to continue to have sex. What can I do to change this? My opinion is just tease the **** out of her and refuse anything but extremely light touching of her vag until she begs me to put it in her. I've done this a few times and her reactions are pretty entertaining. Ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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f283000

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faiNt` said:
Anyway, she said she isn't going to continue to have sex. What can I do to change this? My opinion is just tease the **** out of her and refuse anything but extremely light touching of her vag until she begs me to put it in her. I've done this a few times and her reactions are pretty entertaining. Ideas?
You got it right. Whatever you do don't react to this little drama she is giving you that will only give her more power. Don't even mention sex in conversations. Just wait till you are alone with her again and seduce her. Just go about your business making out with her, heavy kino, teasing etc and you'll get her hot enough that she will forget her drama.

btw always use protection. A few minutes of sex is not worth being a slave for 18 years of child support.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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horaholic

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NEVER believe a chick when they say this!!!
 

f283000

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horaholic said:
NEVER believe a chick when they say this!!!
Yup. That's why i told him to just act like nothing was said and get her alone one more time and see what happens. If he does everything right in escalating and trying to get her hot and she is still a cold b|tch to him then he can start assessing whether she is worth trying anymore.
 
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