"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flabbergasped?

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Yay to Ciaran and the Apocalypse Opener, who would have thought it was so easy?

Went out last night. Partied through the daylight savings switch. Near the end of the night, I see this chick I've met once through friends. We small-talk, then I apocalypse her back to my room.

It was a weaksauce lay, I was drunk, and didn't come, so w/e, but there was penetration from multiple positions.

Great success.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Hey man! Congratulations on getting to that point. I bet from now on, it'll get easier for you...cuz god knows i bet it will ;-)
 

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Flabbergasped? said:
Yay to Ciaran and the Apocalypse Opener, who would have thought it was so easy?

Went out last night. Partied through the daylight savings switch. Near the end of the night, I see this chick I've met once through friends. We small-talk, then I apocalypse her back to my room.

It was a weaksauce lay, I was drunk, and didn't come, so w/e, but there was penetration from multiple positions.

Great success.
I'd be pretty stoked about not coming. Most guys either are too nervous to **** their first time, or blow it within 2 minutes. Congrats
 
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