"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hello All,

me and my ex girlfriend before we were fighting for petty things we were ok...

lately she became distant and started making excuses like she needs space , she needs to sort out her feelings and so on.... didnt have sex for a month.

What i came across was is , one time i fixed her computer and her facebook was open.

What i came across is , she started flirting with another dude on facebook who lives in another country :eek: never saw him in person ... the things i read , she told him how much she wants him ,loves him , wants him to come inside of her ... i meant what?????

Besides the anger , i feel so betrayed , so sad that my girlfriend who i was with for one year came to this . i mean leave me for another dude who lives here but from another country?

She's 25 years old , she has a problem she dosent know what she wants. my friends tell me you are lucky to get out of this mess , so how come i feel so sad? :(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That's oneitis right there bro, hook up with other women, stay busy, stay strong.
 
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Good. You found out what a low quality piece of trash she is.
 
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Yes indeed, i wish all this pain just go away.

I'm so hurt and angry , piece of trash!! how i become stronger?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No , i always read and saw all the comments you guys wrote here. but to face this kind of piece of trash it was first. woman are evil lol
 
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Yeah , it became very clear to me now.

I need to understand what better man is , i am planing to switch my gym to another one , this one is lame , no girls whatsoever. focus on my job and school. join a boxing lessons ... anything that can make me go forward and kill my spare time not to think about this wh0re. any ideas?
 
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you are moving to another gym because of girls? bruh ur doing it all wrong

focus on your gains there not woman smh
 
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No , my main reason is this gym which i am training almost two years is not improving me , not professional. i like to be masculine and they lack in it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stop focusing on women, just carry on and they will come naturally, life brings women to us when we least expect it. Every damn time i chased a woman i ended up fvcking up.
 
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I have a question, does my ex has bpd?

she is a kind of person who manipulates people to get things free.
she has problem showing affection , only in the beginning of the relationship she was ok but i was AFC so she started to talk with other dudes cause she felt something is missing. also this connection with this new dude from Holland makes me wonder. last time she told me she needs space she came back after two weeks. now its been over 3 weeks and its looks like she won't come back. i really don't care , i'm hurt but i'm sure i will survive. the question is will she do it again ? is she really a BPD?
 
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zorg198 said:
me and my ex girlfriend before we were fighting for petty things we were ok...
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Don't have dealings with an ex. BPD is extreme only a small % has it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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