"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lost my Rents trust..and I didn't even do anything. seriously.

Duke

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I got a tip for you: stop being a stereotypical teenager!

Personally I think tobacco/drugs are a waste of money and in certain cases flat-out stupid health-wise, but I'm not hear to shove my views down your throat. Fact is, pot (and paraphanelia) IS illegal, and your dad was justified in his anger. He could have gone to jail because of your dumbass friend.

Put yourself in his shoes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Damian
Well, you've screwed up big-time before. You've been caught drinking, smoking, and god knows what else. From an objective point of view, this is an addictive behavior, skipping from one substance to another. Even if your friends left it in your car, it is still partially your own fault that your parents don't trust you. They've caught you messing around, and this is just another one of those times. It may not have been directly your fault, but you set yourself up for the consequences that you face now. You're lucky it was your parents and not the police, that is sh!t that you don't want to get into, believe me.

-Damian
Come down to reality, using drugs does not make one addicted to anything. Hundreds of thousands of people smoke weed or do other drugs without an addiction. If this country would actually start thinking for itself maybe we'd stop putting people in jail for a nonviolent substance.
 
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