I'm gonna break this down simply....
As of late I've been struggling to get dates with women in general for the first time in many years... Since finishing high school I've never struggled for women, they've always been the ones chasing me making a move on me. It was rare that I had to approach.
Back then I was a broke 4ss student didn't have a job or nothing.
Now I have my own business, got a good social circle, great family relation ships, doing very well financially, doing well for myself.
I broke up with my gf of nearly 2 years last August, since then going back out there, I've really struggled to get dates and to get interest apart from the odd ONS.
You see, when I was with my ex, I had a bunch of problems personally, family, gambling, a lot of things, which I've since recovered from and feel stronger in myself than I've ever felt.
The thing is; she was a 5/6 at best, and personality was a 1! and in hindsight the reason I stayed with her was because of these problems; when they got resolved and I got myself back on track, we just weren't a match at all.
I think being with that girl around my area could have damaged my rep... Reason being.. Girls see a guy with a girl whose clearly not attractive.. they think they can do better.
It's a situation I've never encountered and it's messing with me!
I used to have a huge ego as well, based on having materialistic stuff and how I appeared. Another thing causing this drought I think.. I'm now perceived as having gone down hill because I don't broadcast my sh1t at all.
This is a transitional period and I'm adapting to it... it's tough at the moment because of the lack of interest, but I know the payoff will be worth it in the long run because i'm focusing on the right things!
PEACE
As of late I've been struggling to get dates with women in general for the first time in many years... Since finishing high school I've never struggled for women, they've always been the ones chasing me making a move on me. It was rare that I had to approach.
Back then I was a broke 4ss student didn't have a job or nothing.
Now I have my own business, got a good social circle, great family relation ships, doing very well financially, doing well for myself.
I broke up with my gf of nearly 2 years last August, since then going back out there, I've really struggled to get dates and to get interest apart from the odd ONS.
You see, when I was with my ex, I had a bunch of problems personally, family, gambling, a lot of things, which I've since recovered from and feel stronger in myself than I've ever felt.
The thing is; she was a 5/6 at best, and personality was a 1! and in hindsight the reason I stayed with her was because of these problems; when they got resolved and I got myself back on track, we just weren't a match at all.
I think being with that girl around my area could have damaged my rep... Reason being.. Girls see a guy with a girl whose clearly not attractive.. they think they can do better.
It's a situation I've never encountered and it's messing with me!
I used to have a huge ego as well, based on having materialistic stuff and how I appeared. Another thing causing this drought I think.. I'm now perceived as having gone down hill because I don't broadcast my sh1t at all.
This is a transitional period and I'm adapting to it... it's tough at the moment because of the lack of interest, but I know the payoff will be worth it in the long run because i'm focusing on the right things!
PEACE