Lost my Libido and Motivation

[pingpongz]

Hey guys posted about my ex girlfriend a couple times... Since we broke up my complete sex drive has dissapeared... im just not interested in finding other girls...
I have been with 2 girls since her (we broke up about 3 or 4 weeks ago) but still no change...
Just have this constant sickening feeling knowing that shes banging another dude now instead of me.


How do i get my mojo back?

 

[In2theGame]

Just have this constant sickening feeling knowing that shes banging another dude now instead of me.


How do i get my mojo back?

LoL. Im laughing because i know how you feel. its alright man, you will be OK. take some time.

 

[Royce]

No more warcraft

 

[Groovy]

See it as a chance you have of finding a better girl! I know this may be hard to put in prespective, but I see it this way: who cares about ONE chick?! You two were together, it didn't work out, so you broke up, even better! She isn't more special then the rest of them. But YOU, on the other hand, have the knowledge of how not to be AFC! Keep searching, if the girl didn't see your dj qualities in you, it's because she doesn't want a dj. So instead of being another avrege AFC, GET OVER IT, and find a new better girl, and take it out on her. :crackup: It will make you feel better, and who knows, maybe this girl will even be jelous?

Just think yourself as the dj, the prize, if some girl doesn't want to be with you, her loss! You're the one who is or will be (As soon as you follow dj bible!) the man and have girls after you, so why let ONE girl slow down your progress? You'll laugh at this later. So don't take it personally get over it and keep improving your socializing skills so in a while you will be able to get even better chicks!

I recommend distracting yourself by working out. You can't help it but to feel better that way. Good luck man! :cheer:

 

[Junkyard]

I know exactly how you feel. Ask yourself, why would you want to be with someone that doesnt want to be with you? It does sting but time heals all wounds. You also may be thinking too much about the other dude which makes you jealous on top of it. Just Keep yourself busy as much as possible

 

[brian123]

Im a bit in the same boat bro. You are hurting over the BU and the lack of interest is your bodies way of putting up a defensive wall because you are not ready for another girl just yet.

Give it time, keep working on yourself and things will fall into place bro.

 

[pingpongz]

Thanks for the replies... I have a fix for my free time if i ever start to think about her... i get really stoned and play computer games...

Cant do this at work though... shes moving to the city i live on saturday for university and we're meeting up for the first time in like a month... she keeps telling me she really cares about me and doesn't know what to do blah blah

Maybe i should game her mother?

 

[brian123]

Thanks for the replies... I have a fix for my free time if i ever start to think about her... i get really stoned and play computer games...

Cant do this at work though... shes moving to the city i live on saturday for university and we're meeting up for the first time in like a month... she keeps telling me she really cares about me and doesn't know what to do blah blah

Maybe i should game her mother?

Cut off contact with her and move on. Work on yourself. Listening and dealing with her will only make the healing process take longer.