"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lost My Best-friend

KostaGreek29

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I recently lost my best-friend. It has been very hard on me throughout high school. Here is the story of me and Steven.

Me and Steven were best-friends since grade 7. He was always the muscular kid in elementary school and a very good friend. He would always tell us never to do weed or any other drugs and all that. He was just angelic.

We start high school, grade 9 and he was still a good kid, and was angelic towards everyone. Everyone started to really like him. In January I believe he was invited to a party, and at this party, everything turned around. He was drunk and smoked his first joint of weed. Then he started taking hydroxycut while working out (dangerous supplement). He was officially the most popular kid in school, but lost all of his best friends, including me. He started to then hangout with the "popular kids" who get drunk every weekend, take steroids and smoke weed. I have been heartbroken since.

In the beginning of grade 10 (this year) I tried messaging him on facebook. I said hi and all he said was what do you want, and I said, I just wanna talk to you man, and he said..... you sound like a ****in faggit. Thats how much I remember this.

How does stuff happen to kids like this? He was so angelic and one night turned him completely around. Hes not even the same anymore. I miss him. How do people change like this? And how can I talk to him to help him out, without making him competely hate me.... :cry:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SharinganUser

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You make it sound like he died.

Just cut your losses and move on. If he's going to act like an idiot then he's not worth your time or energy. The guy treats you like dirt, and you should not tolerate that one iota.
 

SPEAK

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SharinganUser said:
You make it sound like he died.


Thats what I thought! Who gives a fvck dude. Go out and find a new best friend that shares the same ideals as you, this old one obviously does not. This is what happens in life, things change. You have to adapt.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eaglez1177

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Dont feed the troll

Gtfo f*ggot
 

FreshMenTank

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SPEAK said:
Thats what I thought! Who gives a fvck dude. Go out and find a new best friend that shares the same ideals as you, this old one obviously does not. This is what happens in life, things change. You have to adapt.
yea i agree, but what a gay thread, you really need some p****
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Berlex

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he was muscular in elementary school? was he doing steroids?
 

AlexLefty

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eaglez1177 said:
Dont feed the troll

Gtfo f*ggot
Eaglez!!!
How i miss this kid..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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