"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lost IOI?

lostsoul271

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hey guys,

I'll keep this short. Started flirting with this HB8 at work last week and on Friday I was getting all sorts of IOI from her. I didn't act on them thinking to escalate IOI by playing hard to get.

Usually this works for me but Monday rolls around and IOI has dropped. I'm thinking I shoulda struck while the iron was still hot...

Looking for opinions from the savvy vets of the board! Is she using my own strat against me now? Or is IOI lost? How should I react?

Thanks mates
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Morphiex

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One thing people gpt to remember is to strike when the iron is hot , ive heard many stories and gone through a couple myself , where the guy waits to long and the girl just looses interest and moves on , its no big deal for em , they just find a new guy right around the corner , but then you get standing holding your **** in your hand wondering wtf just happened....

but to answer your question , yeah u waited too long , and shes prolly lost interest , but maby your should read up on the djbible , and start to kino and **** to relight the flame.....
 

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Yeah I figure at this point it's better for me to give it another shot before nexting... I just find it hard to believe that interest can drop so much in just two days... seems kinda fishy to me.

Thanks for your input Morphiex... anyone else?
 

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This is a typical mistake, you get high Buying temperature then next time its normal, its because thats how it is you build alot of attraction at that moment but because there isn't much or no rapport it can go away like that. I've seen BT go from real high to real low just by going to throw something away.
 
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