"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lost IOI?

lostsoul271

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hey guys,

I'll keep this short. Started flirting with this HB8 at work last week and on Friday I was getting all sorts of IOI from her. I didn't act on them thinking to escalate IOI by playing hard to get.

Usually this works for me but Monday rolls around and IOI has dropped. I'm thinking I shoulda struck while the iron was still hot...

Looking for opinions from the savvy vets of the board! Is she using my own strat against me now? Or is IOI lost? How should I react?

Thanks mates
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Morphiex

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One thing people gpt to remember is to strike when the iron is hot , ive heard many stories and gone through a couple myself , where the guy waits to long and the girl just looses interest and moves on , its no big deal for em , they just find a new guy right around the corner , but then you get standing holding your **** in your hand wondering wtf just happened....

but to answer your question , yeah u waited too long , and shes prolly lost interest , but maby your should read up on the djbible , and start to kino and **** to relight the flame.....
 

lostsoul271

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Yeah I figure at this point it's better for me to give it another shot before nexting... I just find it hard to believe that interest can drop so much in just two days... seems kinda fishy to me.

Thanks for your input Morphiex... anyone else?
 

Distant Light

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This is a typical mistake, you get high Buying temperature then next time its normal, its because thats how it is you build alot of attraction at that moment but because there isn't much or no rapport it can go away like that. I've seen BT go from real high to real low just by going to throw something away.
 
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