"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lost IOI?

lostsoul271

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hey guys,

I'll keep this short. Started flirting with this HB8 at work last week and on Friday I was getting all sorts of IOI from her. I didn't act on them thinking to escalate IOI by playing hard to get.

Usually this works for me but Monday rolls around and IOI has dropped. I'm thinking I shoulda struck while the iron was still hot...

Looking for opinions from the savvy vets of the board! Is she using my own strat against me now? Or is IOI lost? How should I react?

Thanks mates
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Morphiex

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One thing people gpt to remember is to strike when the iron is hot , ive heard many stories and gone through a couple myself , where the guy waits to long and the girl just looses interest and moves on , its no big deal for em , they just find a new guy right around the corner , but then you get standing holding your **** in your hand wondering wtf just happened....

but to answer your question , yeah u waited too long , and shes prolly lost interest , but maby your should read up on the djbible , and start to kino and **** to relight the flame.....
 

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Yeah I figure at this point it's better for me to give it another shot before nexting... I just find it hard to believe that interest can drop so much in just two days... seems kinda fishy to me.

Thanks for your input Morphiex... anyone else?
 

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This is a typical mistake, you get high Buying temperature then next time its normal, its because thats how it is you build alot of attraction at that moment but because there isn't much or no rapport it can go away like that. I've seen BT go from real high to real low just by going to throw something away.
 
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