"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've been seeing this chick for a while, she's not super hot but she's cute and definately bangable (HB7). Well, I've been having sex with her for the last few months, but recently I noticed that I'm not really that into her. I never really wanted to have a full blown relationship with her. Now, it's come to the point that I don't even want sex from her that often, just when I'm really horny. My interest in her has gone down significantly.

The sex was good at first but now its just routine, but in the end I still bust so I can't complain. What should I do? Should I just next this girl and move on to the next one?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you feel the relationship is doomed and you don't see yourself with her in the future, yeah, I would say move on. Its better to do it now and find a girl who makes you hot and excited to be with than to stay in an unfulfilling relationship.
 
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It's time to move on, for your sake! Sticking in a relationship that is unfulfilling will bring you back into world of AFCness. Just get out and meet new girls. Keep her around and see how things go. If you find you want to move on, do so. Don't torture yourself. Being a DJ is about YOU first!
 
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Thanks for your help guys. I just kind of feel bad because this girl is in love with me and I'm gonna be ditching her after 6 months of bangage. Oh well, you gotta do what you gotta do.
 
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Ya' its always tough hurting someone. You have to look after yourself first.

You aren't a bad person or anything - just be sure not to drag it on if you aren't interested.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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same thing happened to me my senior year. But I had to tell her, I just lost interest, the spark wasn't there anymore. And I moved on to bigger and better things. So yeah, NEXT the ***** ;)
 
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